Dear Friends, grab some coffee or tea and away we go!
Christmas time is here, and it snuck up on me. I started out with a bang around Thanksgiving and now suddenly feel overwhelmed somehow. It's a fight for that Christmas spirit, I think maybe it happens every year around this time. We see how far folks have gone, what happened to the sweet Christmas's of yesteryear. It has a way of splashing cold water in my face so to speak and it feels....Well, Icky. Yuck. And I want to say, No! That is not Christmas! Christmas is when I was little and I gazed into my mom and dad's five and dime beautiful little manger scene and the Christmas tree with blown glass ornaments and icicles! It was about that special doll! Christmas cards had beautiful art on the front of them! A signature and sometimes a sweet little personal note, like...'Hope you all are doing well, Mary Ellen got married last year and we are delighted, how is little Amelia?", sometimes there would be a family photo enclosed and my mother would slip those in her photo album. .... People would display the cards. My mom always hung those we received in the slats of the white dining room doors and I remember really enjoying looking at them.
Christmas was about picking a special toy to bring to the altar at church for a poor little girl, my mother and I always picked the most beautiful baby doll we could find at the store!
Edit 12.14.23 I still to this day wonder who the little girl was who received my pretty doll sets every year, an orphange? A very poor home? Where is she today?
Even as a mommy, our family would go to the Salvation Army shelters and help with a music presentation (Jem is a musician plays guitar etc.) and our oldest sang, Joycie played piano. That was the true Christmas spirit. Gifts would be given to the children, oh that would do it as far as Christmas spirit!
Just this morning I called a nearby senior citizens center Jem and I thought about going to, to help stuff senior Christmas bags to deliver to seniors. I called for specifics and asked the head lady if she received my monetary donation for the bags (this is smalltown not a huge organization). I was sooooo excited to be able to send money to a need in my own backyard so to speak! I had spied the need in their little newsletter and thought it would be such a blessing to them! I wanted to make sure it got there in the mail okay, the mail has been very up and down lately. I'm from the old school, I'm close to Pearl Harbor as they used to say, we were financially strapped for most of our younger until recent married years and we're still not made of money although God has seen fit to bless, praise His name. But we've been through it, trust me. Hubs worked on commission only and we owned our own business, no perks in Real Estate. I've been acquainted with this lady for years, see her coming and going once in a blue moon...She was busy though chipper but just quick-quick...Yep, I got it! Oh friends, what has happened to a simple and polite Thank you and sincere appreciation. I don't expect muffins tossed at my feet, but allow me to say, that that was definitely a cold water in my face moment. It's as if the enemy knows when we have our hopes up high and does this kind of thing through people. It's also a good lesson to at least say at least Thank. You. As my husband, Jem has always said...There is not much worse than ungratefulness. I also think the good Lord leads by offenses many times as He closes doors and opens others. ...Oh well, enough of that! Just being an honest human. It makes me grateful for missionaries, friends and organizations who give a hefty thank you!
When I Was Little...
One special Christmas the nightwatchman named Tom at my dad's waterfront business, a Gulf gas station for both cars and boats and boat slips my dad would rent to shrimpers and boaters. The little nightwatchman stand was up on stilts like a tiny little house and Tom would spend the nights there watching over the property and the boats. Tom was chubby and had only one arm, he reminded me of a Fisher Price people. He had a cleft in his chin and had a light peachy complexion, light brown hair, he always looked very serious. That precious man picked a baby doll that came with a matching plastic rocking crib just for me! Do you know that man with one arm wrapped that Christmas gift for me?! I was SO touched even as a very small little girl, I doubt I was even four years old. That was such a special Christmas knowing the trouble, precious Tom went through to buy this little gal, me, a gift. I knew in my little heart and I always cherished that little baby doll, I always, always cherished that little baby doll and crib.
Sometimes we must get hold of ourselves and pull ourselves back to those simple times. We must not succumb to the world's way of Christmas or be discouraged, we can keep our homes a sweet and peaceful place.
There are sooo many blessings to consider and we must fight to keep our eyes on the Christ Child and what the Lord Jesus did and does for us! It's a perfect time to be that Jesus with skin on to others.
I strive to keep our home that peaceful and sweet place and especially at Christmas.
Our fur angels are so very important this time of year, they are a blessing and I will start with this precious to-me photo of our little Muffie the evening before he passed away...I love this photo of our sweet Muffie as he lay next to Jem the night before he passed away. I knew he was not doing well, he looked like a little angel to me. I'm so glad I caught this beautiful image. I miss our little Muffie so much, both Jem and I look over at his little wicker bed quite often to still check on our Muffie, the blankets are still just so, gently mussed over where we picked him up and whisked him to the vet's. It will stay that way for a long while. They will not be moved or straightened, no.
Our trees represent our love for our pets.
This ornament reminds me of sweet Liesl.
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Liesl is that colossal ball of love. She had been passed around as a large puppy and when she was around one year old we got that baby! She's so cute...She tries to talk!
This is sweet Gracie, she is a hound dog, she is precious and very sensitive. She decided this day to relax in a new small kitty bed. She's a large dog As Liesl is, and sometimes I call her "Miss America" because she is long and leggy! lol Our daughter found Gracie on the old ranch road literally skin and bones, and no hair with demodex mange in FREEZING cold weather. Our daughter threw a tablecloth she had in the trunk over her and got her home to us where we nursed that angel back to health.
Dachshund ornaments represent Atticus, our daughters, dachshund and Peanut who we lost two years ago.
Atticus, our daughter's dog, but he knows his Mimi too. He's a very sensitive doggy. That is a coyote collar he is wearing for extra protection outside.
Kitties are represented too. We have, Howdy, Momo and Elbee (Mr. Blue Eyes).
Elbee
This is Elbee, (Mr. Blue Eyes), he will not let me get a good pic of him, that rascal. He's a sweet kitty, a little guy and loves his treats. He also likes to get in the dirt outside and gets his little nose dirty all the time! The pic doesn't pick up on his blue eyes. He was found toddling down a busy road with hawk talon marks on his back, he was just a tiny little kitten!
I have this vintage Christmas card, probably from the 30s or 40s and this looks a lot like Elbee.
Howdy
Here is one of our kitties, Howdy. Howdy is shy but very affectionate, he can be a little bossy about that too! Sometimes I call him, Bossy Britches! lol
He says, pet me - pet me! I will sit and be in your face until you pet me! haha
Elbee and Howdy this morning. Edit 12.16.23 This table is hardly ever used for dinner except for holidays, I disinfect the table and placemats when we eat here! ; )
Momo.
Momo is a feminine little thing, beautiful Momo, glamor girl. She is Howdy's sister. She is also very clear when she wants pets. She is also very sweet and very delicate in her walk and actions and likes her food. Howdy and Momo's mommy was Marilla, we found Marilla under a freeway overpass one dark night.
Momo, along with Liesl love to greet me in the morning first thing! Good morning Momo!
Our Primary Tree
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Our primary tree, it's all of 4 and a half feet and I put it on the coffee table that I grew up with. Most of our ornaments on this tree of our pets are from our daughters, or finds after Christmas. The pale pink bulbs are from Dollar Tree, the kind that comes in the long tube. These are lovely nonbreakable ornaments and I love the pale pink against the maroon wall. (So vintage!) The little silver star is from Dollar Tree as well.
My 'It's a Wonderful Life' Scenes
I've been working on Christmas since Thanksgiving and some of my It's a Wonderful Life Village stays up year round...In the morning I say....Good Morning Wonderful Life peoples!..as I light it up.
This section stays up year round and it's so fun and fanciful.
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We have Bailey Bros., the Granville House, Mr. Potter's on backrow, on front row we have Gower's drugstore, the library and the highschool.
From what I've read, Donna Reed was just the person she portrays in It's a Wonderful Life. Jimmy Stewart sounds very similar as well, and a family man.
Our daughter, Grace gave this angel from Hobby Lobby to me one Mother's Day, I usually put something seasonal on her lap as she watches over all the Wonderful Life peoples and buildings.
Here's George here standing in front of the Bailey Bros. Building & Loan Association, poor George, he's beside himself, he is very upset.
This scene is atop a very, very old Henty book, probably from the early 1900s. The inscriptions were usually written: Merry Christmas! From Aunt Emma. Or: To Master Thomas. The Henty books are adventure books written for young men or young women would enjoy them too.
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Here is that wonderful gal, Annie, the housekeeper here at the Granville House where George, Mary and the children live.
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Don't worry, Annie, Bert the policeman is right around the corner. : )
Oh no....It's Mr. Potter! Yikes! He's got that money on his lap I tell you! That greedy meanie-boots crook!
Here's Ernie's taxi, parked right there in front of Gower's drugstore. I'm trying to find a Target brand Ernie, and a Mr. Gower. But patience, patience...right? All of these pieces here are the Target brand from the 90s. Very good memories then, our girls were little and I remember saving my pennies for Gower's drugstore and the highschool. It was later stolen by dishonest workers who were supposed to be cleaning for mold, but thank God I've been able to restore my little collection and more thanks to patience, gifts from Zuzu and ebay. I try to be patient waiting on a good value, and sometimes use swagbucks to buy these things.
Across the room we have this part of It's a Wonderful Life.
We have Harry in uniform standing in front of the church, city hall with the Bailey children there waiting on mom and dad who are standing in front of the train station. Many of my Wonderful Life buildings are on my old Grace Livingston Hill books, some of the books are also The Bells of St. Mary's, and probably Peter Marshall's old sermons too.
Let's go Over to the Little Bookcase
We have a model B29 from WWII that Jem put together from a model kit I got him for Christmas a couple of years ago from Hobby Lobby. I have a fascinating stack of like-new condition 30s magazines called The Farmer's Wife. We have the Bijou Theater from Wonderful Life, and they are even playing: Bells of St. Mary's! One of our little trees lit up and a wonderful Cathedral from Walmart I picked up a few years ago. Do you see Baby Jesus under the tree?
This is exactly like the little Baby Jesus my Sunday School teacher, Mrs. Cooley gave me when I was in the first grade. It's made from plastic and the little Baby Jesus is removable from the hay. The original was stolen as I explained above, and thank the Lord I was able to find another one on ebay last year.
The bookcase with sliding doors is something my dad and my Uncle Bennie made together way before I was born.
These magazines contain the sweetest articles you've ever seen, I read one about games for college age youth, just so innocent and fun, and look at the Christmas subscription price! 5 Years for $1.00!
Let's go to the Breakfast table area!
The Precious Nativity
I love my Nativity scene. I love to light it up in the morning and throughout the day I stop and ponder this scene. I never want to lose the true sweet real meaning behind Christmas.
A very, very old Christmas card, probably from the 30s or 40s. Is this not so sweet? I just love everything about it.
The Library Christmas Tree Area
This is another little tree, this one is Grace's real tree she bought. But I do have a little 'police department' building that I thought went well with our Wonderful Life buildings. I found it reasonably on ebay. The light-up doggy always stays here atop my old cedar chest that Mr. Jeske made me when I was born. The police department building sits on top of a stack of children's Christmas books for when the grandchildren come to visit. This is near our breakfast table too.
I have quite a few other decorations even in the guest Edit: 12.14.23 bathroom, many old cards and pale pink bulbs....Another four foot tree that got scooted in the living room when Grace brought her real one home...Oh well, it works. : )
There are a lot of memories right now...A lot of precious thoughts too. We miss those we love and those innocent years of childhood.
Jem when he was a little boy. This abc shirt was his favorite.
I think I was almost 2 years old here.
This is me with my little dog, Cutie when I was probably 4 or 5. I drew this when I was in highschool.
Been to Dollar Tree Lately?
Last week my mom had a total ball at Dollar Tree! It was one of those very special days and it even did her so, so good, cognitively. Here she is with one of our little grandsons, he decided he would take a ride on Great-Grandma's walker!
I've been enjoying this Christmas music video on our tv screen, it's so old fashioned and sweet. Think WWII era Christmas.
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I sure hope everyone is okay this Christmas season, I know days can seem strange as well as enchanting this time of year. Many widows and widowers need our prayers, many who have an ill mate need our prayers, many who have very elderly parents as Jem and I do need your prayers.
I appreciate you all so very much! ~Amelia
10 comments:
What a lovely, lovely post. Sweet memories and tales.
I just love all the decorations - you really do Christmas m up! So pretty.
Oh your babies are all so precious. Is your white cat deaf by any chance? I had a solid white cat with blue eyes and he was deaf. Vet said it was a genetic thing with all white and the blue eyes. He lived in with us until he was about 13 years old. My Bubby.
Again, beautiful post - thank you!
How very beautiful, Amelia. From the memories, the writing, and pictures... may I say your decorating is simply stunning! And those sweet fur babies. ALL of them. I love that you do little trees and bits of holiday decoration everywhere. That's a great way to have joy in every room of the house. What cuties you and Jem were when you were little, and how happy your mom looks in Dollar Tree with her great-grandson beaming. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. God bless you! --Elise
There is so much to enjoy in this post. I loved the tour of your Christmas home. The trees look charming and your Wonderful Life village is lovely!
I would love to have a copy of one of those old "Farmer's Wife" magazines!
I listened to part of the video of the old fashioned Christmas songs. Wouldn't it be nice if there was something like that on a CD? I would love that!
Have a wonderful old fashioned Christmas!
Hi Sweet Cheryl, Awwww Mr. Bubby! I love that name! I don't *think* Elbee is deaf, it never occured to me, but this morning I clapped my hands behind him and he ran away. So I'm guessing he's not deaf? I will have to watch even on partial problems with his hearing. Thank you for letting me know, that is interesting.
Thank you so much for your kind encouragement, I'm so glad you enjoyed my Christmas decorations! It means the world that friends appreciate the decorations and stories. : )
God bless and be with you, Cheryl, ~Amelia
Elise, Thank you so much sweet friend for your encouragement, I'm so glad you enjoyed the life stories, our fur babies and decorations. It really is so much more fun and so much easier to use smaller trees, I can keep the two four ft. trees in their boxes right in the coat closet and then easy-peasy just take them out when I'm ready. The little two foot or 18 inch ones too, I keep those on the top shelf of the coat closet. Elise, I actually have the guest bathroom decorated a bit with very old vintage Christmas cards and a few pink and gold bulbs. (I had mistakenly wrote guest room, when I meant guest bathroom. Haha..) We don't have a guest room. One lady that came over told me our guest bathroom was like visiting a museum if that tells you anything! lol
Your kind words on hubs and I mean the world, I will sure pass that compliment on to him too. : )
God bless and be with you, Elise, ~Amelia
Hello Sweet Mrs. White, Oh I am so glad you enjoyed the Christmas decorations and the Wonderful Life Christmas settings! I love keeping our home in that sweet fanciful atmosphere at Christmas especially keeping it fanciful. It's amazing just what little white lights will do.
Do ya know Mrs. White? I was shocked on how reasonable those magazines were! I found those on ebay and they were so doable. It's so touching to read how sweet things were back then, for the younger adult people, they enjoyed sweet things and were not expected to be rebellious. Such a breath of fresh air and really does my heart good. I know for me and I'm sure you too, our children were raised with sweet things.
Yes, it would be so nice if I could find a cd of that kind of music. I was listening to it today, and one of the old songs said..."I wish you a Merry American Christmas...and Peace on Earth". It must have taken place during the war...Reminds me of one of those sweet choruses from an old Shirley Temple movie.
Have a sweet and blessed Christmas! ~Amelia
Well Hello Rose! Awww..I'm so glad you enjoyed the Christmas decorations and Wonderful Life little settings. I'm 62, almost 63 and I so know how you feel! My mom used to have a large lovely Christmas tree and the manger scene. She would decorate with gold tinsel swirled in simple patterns on coffee tables and the manger scene. Very tasteful. The little trees are quite liberating I must say, I can just take them out of the closet and stand them up. : ) Many of the town buildings stay up year around, it makes me happy. Yes, things are overwhelming like you wrote, it can really get to us right? I heard a younger woman on a video act as if she was really doing something keeping her same decor for ten years...And she bought 'quality' so it would last speaking of ornaments on a tree. What are they doing? Playing baseball with the ornaments? lol I don't mean to sound sarcastic but it makes us wonder doesn't it? You are correct, we always had the same sentimental ornaments in our home. I plan on keeping my little dt ornaments for a long time! I love them! I have old vintage glass ones in the attic and will take them down one of these days and put those special very old ones in a glass bowl with lights maybe? I will keep my little tree the same though, why change what I love? Yes, Rose, it seems everything is overdone, young adults want things maybe a retired couple can afford. It can be disheartening, they do not understand the value of money it seems or the sacrifice it took, saving every penny so we could stay home. I know my mother had to stand against extravagant spending too even in my little elementary school, one mom who moved in from another state was very modern in her thinking wanted these very expensive party favors for our class once.
I do recall that tv program, and I need to revisit that! Thank you for the suggestion! I haven't seen that particular Walton's show but it sounds wonderful, I remember the one show when the girls come home from school and Olivia tells them that there is vegetable soup on the wood burning stove. That was their afternoon snack, and it showed them walking around with little cups of soup. It was sweet.
I know exactly what you mean on different stores, I wrote wal a letter. I will say that Wal wrote me back a meaningful letter, they were the only one who wrote me back. I don't know if you've seen their site but they are lifting our veterans up at this time so that is nice, but yes, I hear you. We try hard to support companies that support our values and stay away from those who don't. Dt is one of those we support at this time. : ) I love that place! We finally have a brand new one in our smalltown! It's beautiful, with nice lighting and just has everything, it's so exciting for me and others. I love simple things in life. As you can see, my mom does too! Hobby Lobby is also a nice store to support as I'm sure you know, we truly do need to be very careful and vote with our dollars.
Merry Christmas dear Rose, I appreciate you, God bless and be with you, and may we lift our country up in prayer. ~Amelia
Rose, It looks like you may have accidentally deleted your comment. It says 'removed by author'. Oh me oh my, blogging can be tedious. I understand.
Yes, my mom has the same wallpaper and furniture and bedspread and everything since she moved into her home more than 23 years ago. In our home I grew up in, same thing. Everything stayed the same and it was clean. The only thing that changed was my room as I grew older.
You are so correct, we didn't just buy just to buy because we wanted something different, and when school started we shopped for school clothes and shoes and stopped until Easter time.
So glad you enjoyed our animals, they truly are precious to us! : ) They are Gifts that bring so much joy!
God bless you Rose!
Oh, Amelia, what a lovely and sweet post.I've read it several times and it is such a blessing. The drawing of yourself and Cutie is beautiful. You're quite the artist. You would love our little town as it looks very much like It's a Wonderful Town . We have a town square with all decorated. There's a bank on the corner and all of the little shops are decorated and lit up. We have "hometown" Christmas parade where the school children participate. It's just beautiful. Right now, "A Christmas Carol" is playing on stage at our one and only movie theater, which dates back to the 1920's. Except for the rudeness of the many tourists that we get, the residents still say hello to you as you walk by them, or wave if you pass them in your car. This was so different from where we came from as we lived in a large city due to my husband's job as a first responder. When he retired we moved to where we are now and we've been here for 20 years. It's so hard to believe that so much time has passed. Thank you again for being such a light. Wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a happy, healthy and prosperous New Year. Blessings, Cookie
Thank you Cookie! I used to draw all the time, I loved doing pencil portraits and enjoyed doing many fashion illustrations with pastel and black ink, I can do a little water color too when I get the druthers.
Your comment blessed my heart, Cookie. The old towns are so wonderful, at least most of them are. It seems every old town has a different spirit to it, yours sounds *wonderful*! We were in an old town today, I call it uso town because it has an old uso facility from WWII. I *love* that place. And it's interesting, most of the people in this particular town are very polite and we've found out from the museum there that the lady who started the uso building for the servicemen was a very polite lady, and loved the arts.
Time truly flies doesn't it? We've been here for 12 years and it seems like yesterday the girls were all home and now three are married. Life is like a roller coaster isn't it?
I hope you have a blessed Christmas and a sweet and safe New Year, may we lift our country up in prayer, I appreciate you, ~Amelia
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